
Developmental Nourishment Guide by Chakra Phase
A Play-based Guide to Meeting Unmet Needs
These activities are invitations — ways development naturally expresses itself when safety and presence are available.
Age 0-7: Root Chakra (Safety, Grounding, Physical Trust)
Developmental Focus:
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Body safety
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Rhythm
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Sensory regulation
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Trust in the environment
Supportive Experiences:
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Gross motor play: running, climbing, crawling, animal walks
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Sensory grounding: sand, water, mud, grass, weighted objects
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Predictable routines, repetition, simple physical tasks
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Rocking, walking, drumming, dancing
Re-parenting Translation:
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Walking meditation
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Somatic grounding
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Gentle strength-building
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Nature contact
Age 8-14: Sacral Chakra (Connection, Pleasure, Emotional Flow)
Developmental Focus:
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Emotional expression
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Relational play
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Creativity
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Enjoyment without performance
Supportive Experiences:
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Pretend play, dolls, puppets, role-play
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Art, music, free movement
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Water play
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Storytelling and imaginative worlds
Re-parenting Translation:
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Creative play without outcome
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Emotional expression through art
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Permission to enjoy
Age 15-21: Solar Plexus Chakra (Autonomy, Agency, Self-Trust)
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Developmental Focus:
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Choice
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Initiative
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Competence
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Healthy frustration
Supportive Experiences:
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Puzzles, building, board games
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Helping with cooking or simple tasks
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Problem-solving games
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Learning rules and boundaries through play
Re-parenting Translation:
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Small achievable goals
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Skill-building without pressure
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Practicing “I choose.”
Age 22-28: Heart Chakra (Attachment, Empathy, Belonging)
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Developmental Focus:
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Safe connection
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Co-regulation
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Empathy
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Repair after rupture
Supportive Experiences:
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Playdates, cooperative games
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Shared storytelling
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Talking about feelings
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Group play with guidance
Re-parenting Translation:
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Relational safety practices
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Self-compassion
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Attachment repair exercises
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